Safety and stability are illusions. You can feel like you are in a really good place and be hit by setbacks. Even if temporary, they stop you in your tracks. Evaluate. Do you have to start from the beginning again? Do you start where you left off but with a lot less trust and enthusiasm? And if you do continue, nursing the wounds and bearing the scars, less trusting, more worried, always cautious – should you? Is that best for anyone involved?